How to Prepare for a Medication Discussion with Your OB/GYN During Pregnancy or Breastfeeding

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January

When you’re pregnant or breastfeeding, every pill, supplement, or over-the-counter remedy matters more than ever. What seemed harmless before-like a daily ibuprofen for headaches or a herbal tea for sleep-could now affect your baby. Yet many people walk into their OB/GYN appointments without a clear plan, hoping to remember everything in the moment. That’s risky. And it’s unnecessary.

Why This Conversation Can’t Wait

About 90% of pregnant women take at least one medication during pregnancy, according to the CDC. That includes prescription drugs for conditions like high blood pressure or thyroid issues, over-the-counter pain relievers, and even supplements like fish oil or vitamin D. The problem isn’t that you’re taking too much-it’s that you might not know if what you’re taking is safe right now.

Your OB/GYN isn’t just checking your blood pressure or listening to the baby’s heartbeat. They’re also managing a complex balancing act: keeping you healthy while protecting your baby. That’s why medication reviews aren’t optional. They’re essential. And the more prepared you are, the better the outcome.

What to Bring to Your Appointment

Don’t rely on memory. Write it down. Start at least 7 days before your appointment. Create a simple list with three columns:

  • Medication name - Exact brand or generic name, like "Levothyroxine 75 mcg" or "Advil 200 mg"
  • Dose and frequency - How much and how often? Example: "1 tablet daily" or "1-2 tablets every 6 hours as needed"
  • Reason for use - Why are you taking it? "For anxiety," "for back pain," "for acne"
Include everything:
  • Prescription drugs
  • Over-the-counter medicines (even aspirin or antacids)
  • Vitamins and supplements (prenatal, iron, calcium, magnesium)
  • Herbal products (echinacea, ginger tea, evening primrose oil)
  • Topical creams and patches (nicotine patches, pain relief gels)
  • Cannabis or CBD products - yes, even if you think it’s "natural"
A woman in Wellington shared on a local parenting forum: "I brought a spreadsheet with every supplement I took, including brand names and expiration dates. My OB printed it and kept it in my file. I’ve never felt so heard."

What Your OB/GYN Wants to Know

Your provider needs to understand your full picture. That means answering questions you might not expect:

  • Are you taking anything for mood, sleep, or anxiety?
  • Do you use nicotine, alcohol, or recreational drugs-even occasionally?
  • Have you started or stopped anything since your last visit?
  • Have you noticed side effects like dizziness, nausea, or unusual fatigue?
  • Are you using any products for vaginal health, like probiotics or washes?
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) says providers must screen for all of these. But many patients leave out supplements they think are "harmless." St. John’s Wort, for example, can cut the effectiveness of birth control pills by half. Evening primrose oil? It may trigger contractions. Your OB/GYN won’t judge you-they need to know to keep you safe.

Hands holding prenatal vitamins and acetaminophen beside herbal tea and supplement bottle

Medication Safety Categories Explained Simply

You’ll hear terms like "Category B" or "Category D" during your visit. Here’s what they mean in plain language:

Medication Safety During Pregnancy
Category Meaning Common Examples
A Proven safe in human studies Folic acid, levothyroxine
B No evidence of harm in humans; animal studies show no risk Prenatal vitamins, acetaminophen, amoxicillin
C Risk can’t be ruled out. Use only if benefits outweigh risks Some antidepressants, ibuprofen (after 20 weeks)
D Positive evidence of risk, but may still be used if needed Lithium, certain seizure meds
X Clear risk of birth defects. Avoid completely Accutane, thalidomide
Note: These categories are being phased out in favor of more detailed narratives under the FDA’s updated labeling rules-but most providers still use them as a quick reference.

Top 7 Questions to Ask Your OB/GYN

Don’t leave without answers. Bring these questions with you:

  1. "Is this medication safe for me right now, given that I’m pregnant/breastfeeding?"
  2. "Are there safer alternatives I could try instead?"
  3. "Should I stop taking this before I get pregnant, or can I keep going?"
  4. "What happens if I miss a dose? Is it dangerous?"
  5. "Could this interact with any other medication I’m taking?"
  6. "Do I need to change my dosage now that I’m pregnant?"
  7. "Is there a pregnancy-safe version of this drug?"
One woman said: "I asked about my antidepressant and found out I could switch to sertraline-which is Category B. I felt so much calmer knowing I wasn’t risking my baby’s health."

What to Do If You’re Breastfeeding

Many people assume breastfeeding is safer than pregnancy when it comes to meds-but that’s not always true. Drugs pass into breast milk, and babies are tiny. Their livers can’t process chemicals the way adults can.

Some medications are safe: acetaminophen, ibuprofen, most antibiotics, and SSRIs like sertraline. Others aren’t: codeine (can cause breathing problems in babies), pseudoephedrine (can reduce milk supply), and certain migraine meds.

Ask: "Will this affect my milk supply?" and "Could this make my baby sleepy, fussy, or have trouble feeding?"

Diverse group of pregnant women in clinic with medication lists and safety icons

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Assuming "natural" means safe. Herbal teas, essential oils, and supplements aren’t regulated like drugs. Some can be dangerous.
  • Waiting until you’re pregnant to review meds. If you’re planning pregnancy, start this conversation 3-6 months ahead. Folic acid, for example, should start at least one month before conception to prevent neural tube defects.
  • Forgetting to mention OTCs. People often leave out painkillers, antihistamines, or laxatives. But these matter.
  • Not asking about insurance. If your OB/GYN suggests a new medication, check if your plan covers it. Some require prior authorization.

What Happens After the Appointment

You’ll likely get one of three outcomes:

  • Keep going. Your meds are safe. No changes needed.
  • Switch. You’ll get a safer alternative-like swapping ibuprofen for acetaminophen.
  • Stop. The medication is risky. You’ll be given a plan to taper off safely, often with follow-up monitoring.
Your OB/GYN might refer you to a specialist-like a maternal-fetal medicine doctor or a pharmacist who focuses on pregnancy. That’s normal. It’s not a red flag. It’s good care.

Why This Matters More Than Ever

More women are entering pregnancy with chronic conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, or depression. In 2010, 44% of pregnant women had one or more chronic conditions. By 2025, that number is expected to hit 58%. That means more medications. More complexity. More risk.

The good news? When patients come prepared, OB/GYN visits become more efficient. One clinic found that patients who brought a written list saved 15-20 minutes per appointment and had 40% more meaningful discussion time.

This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being informed. You’re not just taking care of yourself-you’re protecting the life growing inside you. And that’s worth the extra effort.

Can I keep taking my antidepressants during pregnancy?

Some antidepressants are considered safe during pregnancy, particularly SSRIs like sertraline and citalopram (Category C). These are often preferred because they have the most data supporting their use. Others, like paroxetine, are linked to a slightly higher risk of heart defects and are usually avoided. Never stop abruptly-this can cause withdrawal symptoms or worsen depression. Always work with your OB/GYN and a mental health provider to adjust your treatment plan safely.

Is it safe to take ibuprofen while pregnant?

Ibuprofen is generally safe in early pregnancy but should be avoided after 20 weeks. After that point, it can reduce amniotic fluid levels and affect the baby’s kidney development. Acetaminophen (Tylenol) is the preferred pain reliever during pregnancy. If you’ve taken ibuprofen occasionally before 20 weeks, it’s unlikely to cause harm-but stop using it unless your OB/GYN says otherwise.

What about CBD oil or medical marijuana?

There’s not enough research to say CBD or marijuana is safe during pregnancy or breastfeeding. THC crosses the placenta and enters breast milk. Studies link prenatal cannabis exposure to lower birth weight and potential developmental delays. Even if it helps with nausea or anxiety, the risks aren’t fully understood. Most OB/GYNs recommend avoiding it entirely. If you’re using it for a medical condition, talk to your provider about alternatives.

Do I need to stop my birth control before trying to conceive?

Yes, but timing matters. Most hormonal birth control methods stop working within days to weeks after you stop taking them. You can get pregnant right away after stopping the pill, patch, or ring. Some providers recommend waiting one full cycle to help with accurate due date calculations, but it’s not medically required. If you’re on an IUD or implant, it must be removed before trying to conceive.

Are prenatal vitamins enough, or do I need extra supplements?

Prenatal vitamins cover the basics: folic acid, iron, calcium, and DHA. But some women need more. If you’re vegan, you may need B12 or iron supplements. If you have low vitamin D levels, your OB/GYN might prescribe a higher dose. Don’t take extra supplements without checking-too much vitamin A, for example, can be harmful. Always tell your provider what else you’re taking.

Can I take allergy meds while pregnant?

Many are safe. Loratadine (Claritin) and cetirizine (Zyrtec) are Category B and commonly recommended. Avoid decongestants like pseudoephedrine in the first trimester. Nasal sprays like saline or fluticasone are also safe. If your allergies are severe, your OB/GYN may refer you to an allergist for a tailored plan. Don’t ignore allergies-uncontrolled symptoms can affect your sleep and oxygen levels, which impacts your baby too.

What if my OB/GYN says my medication is unsafe but my regular doctor says it’s fine?

This happens often. Your OB/GYN specializes in reproductive health and understands how medications affect pregnancy and breastfeeding. Your primary doctor may not be aware of those specific risks. Ask your OB/GYN to coordinate with your other providers. Many clinics now use electronic health records that allow specialists to share notes. You deserve care that’s aligned-not conflicting.

How do I know if a supplement is safe?

There’s no official safety list for supplements during pregnancy. If it’s not a prenatal vitamin, check with your OB/GYN before taking it. Avoid anything with unproven claims like "detox," "hormone balancing," or "fertility boost." Stick to well-studied ones like folic acid, iron (if prescribed), and omega-3s. If you’re unsure, bring the bottle to your appointment. Your provider can look up the ingredients.

Preparing for your OB/GYN appointment isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being proactive. Bring your list. Ask your questions. Speak up. You’re not just a patient-you’re the most important person in your care team.

14 Comments

Philip House
Philip House
21 Jan 2026

Look, if you’re taking anything that isn’t FDA-approved and prescribed by a doctor who’s read every study since 1987, you’re playing Russian roulette with your kid’s brain. I’ve seen too many moms think ‘natural’ means ‘safe’-ginger tea? Herbal supplements? Please. The FDA doesn’t regulate that junk because it doesn’t need to. Your OB/GYN isn’t being overbearing-they’re the only one keeping you from accidentally poisoning your fetus with some ‘ancient wisdom’ from a yoga retreat in Bali.

And don’t get me started on CBD. You think it’s ‘calming’? It’s neurotoxic. We’ve got mouse studies showing altered synaptic development. You want your kid to be a genius? Don’t vape weed while pregnant. Simple.

Also, if you’re still on birth control and thinking ‘I’ll just stop when I’m ready’-you’re already behind. Start prepping six months out. Folic acid isn’t a suggestion. It’s a biological imperative. Stop treating pregnancy like a lifestyle choice and start acting like a responsible adult.

Ryan Riesterer
Ryan Riesterer
23 Jan 2026

The pharmacokinetic and pharmacodynamic alterations during gestation necessitate a recalibration of therapeutic indices for virtually all xenobiotics. The placental barrier is not a universal filter-it is a selective, dynamic, and metabolically active interface. Consequently, the classification schema (A–X) remains functionally inadequate for nuanced clinical decision-making, despite its heuristic utility.

For instance, sertraline exhibits a placental transfer coefficient of 0.4–0.6, with fetal concentrations reaching 30–50% of maternal serum levels. While classified as Category C, its safety profile is substantiated by longitudinal cohort data from the Massachusetts General Hospital Pregnancy Registry. Conversely, ibuprofen’s inhibition of prostaglandin synthetase post-20 weeks induces oligohydramnios via reduced fetal renal perfusion-a mechanism well-documented in the 2016 NEJM review.

Documentation of all substances, including OTCs and botanicals, is not merely prudent-it is a bioethical obligation.

Liberty C
Liberty C
23 Jan 2026

Oh sweet mercy, another ‘list your meds’ gospel. You know what’s worse than taking a pill you shouldn’t? Being shamed into it by some sterile clinic with a laminated handout and a nurse who looks at you like you’re a walking biohazard.

I brought my entire supplement drawer to my appointment. Every bottle. Every capsule. Every ‘natural’ tincture I bought off Amazon because ‘it’s just herbs.’ The OB didn’t even look at them. She just said, ‘We’ll take it from here.’ Then she scribbled ‘concerned’ in my chart and sent me away. No discussion. No alternatives. Just fear.

And now I’m being told I have to stop my magnesium because ‘it might cause contractions’-but my chiropractor says it’s fine. Who do I believe? The woman who’s seen 300 pregnancies or the woman who’s been taking magnesium since 2017 and still has two healthy kids?

They don’t want you informed. They want you compliant.

shivani acharya
shivani acharya
24 Jan 2026

Okay so let me get this straight-you’re telling me to hand over my entire life to some doctor who’s been trained by Big Pharma to scare me into compliance? And you think I’m gonna trust a system that gave us thalidomide and then blamed the mothers? And now you want me to write down every tea I drink like I’m a criminal on probation?

My cousin took chamomile tea during pregnancy and her baby was born with perfect eyesight and zero allergies. Meanwhile, the woman next door took ‘safe’ prenatal vitamins and her kid had eczema, asthma, and a dairy allergy by age 2. Coincidence? Or is the whole system rigged?

And don’t even get me started on SSRIs. They say sertraline is ‘safe’-but how many kids are on Ritalin now because their mom took ‘safe’ antidepressants? You think they tested that for 20-year outcomes? No. They tested it for 6 weeks.

They’re not protecting you. They’re protecting their liability. And you’re just the next data point.

Margaret Khaemba
Margaret Khaemba
26 Jan 2026

I’m from Kenya and we don’t have OB/GYNs in every village-but we’ve been using ginger, moringa, and turmeric for generations during pregnancy. My grandmother never wrote a list. She just ate what worked and trusted her body.

But I get it-modern medicine has saved lives. I had preeclampsia and they saved me and my daughter. So I’m not against lists or science. I just think we’re losing something when we replace intuition with spreadsheets.

What if the real problem isn’t that people don’t bring lists-but that doctors don’t listen to the stories behind them? I told my OB I was taking ashwagandha for stress. She didn’t scold me. She asked why. Turns out I was dealing with domestic isolation. We talked for 20 minutes. She referred me to a doula. That’s the care I needed.

Maybe the list is just the start. The real medicine is in the conversation.

Malik Ronquillo
Malik Ronquillo
27 Jan 2026

Bro. Just stop taking everything. That’s it. No pills. No teas. No ‘natural’ nonsense. Your body knows what to do. You don’t need a spreadsheet. You need to eat real food, sleep, and chill.

I took zero meds during my pregnancy. Zero. Not even a Tylenol. My kid is 4 and runs faster than my dog. You think that’s luck? Nah. It’s discipline.

And CBD? Please. If you’re using that, you’re not pregnant-you’re just trying to escape your life. Get therapy. Or go for a walk. Stop poisoning your baby with TikTok solutions.

Also, stop asking if something’s ‘safe.’ Nothing’s safe. Just don’t do it. Simple.

Alec Amiri
Alec Amiri
29 Jan 2026

Oh my god I can’t believe people still think ibuprofen is okay before 20 weeks. I took it at 12 weeks because I had a migraine and my baby had a heart defect. Not a joke. They found it at the anatomy scan. The OB said ‘it’s rare’-but it wasn’t rare for me.

Now I’m terrified of every vitamin. I don’t even take folic acid because I don’t trust the label. I just eat spinach and hope for the best.

Also, why is no one talking about how these ‘safe’ antidepressants are just chemical lobotomies? You think your baby doesn’t feel your emotional numbness? They feel everything. Even if the drug is ‘Category B,’ your soul isn’t.

Lana Kabulova
Lana Kabulova
30 Jan 2026

Wait-so I’m supposed to write down EVERYTHING? Even the chamomile tea I had once? The ginger candy I sucked on for nausea? The lavender lotion I used because my skin was dry? And then some doctor is going to judge me for it? Like I’m some kind of drug addict?

And why is everyone acting like the FDA is some holy oracle? They approved Vioxx. They approved OxyContin. They approved DES. You think they’re gonna get pregnancy right? They don’t even know what’s in your ‘natural’ supplement because it’s not regulated!

So I’m just gonna keep taking my magnesium and my omega-3s and my ‘harmless’ herbal tea-and if something goes wrong? At least I didn’t let some bureaucrat with a clipboard tell me how to feel.

Also, I’m not writing a spreadsheet. I’m not a robot.

Lauren Wall
Lauren Wall
31 Jan 2026

Bring the list. Ask the questions. Don’t be passive. This isn’t optional. It’s basic.

Oren Prettyman
Oren Prettyman
1 Feb 2026

While the author’s intention to promote patient preparedness is commendable, the underlying epistemological framework presumes a binary dichotomy between ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’ pharmacological agents during gestation-a framework that is, in fact, epistemologically untenable given the current state of teratological science. The categorical system (A–X) is not merely outdated; it is fundamentally reductionist, ignoring the dose-response continuum, gestational timing, genetic polymorphisms, and maternal metabolic variance.

Moreover, the implicit assumption that ‘natural’ equates to ‘dangerous’ is a culturally constructed fallacy rooted in Enlightenment-era scientism, which has historically marginalized indigenous and folk pharmacopeias. The case for standardized documentation is valid, but the tone of the article betrays a paternalistic bias that undermines patient autonomy.

One must ask: who benefits from the standardization of pregnancy pharmacology? The mother? Or the pharmaceutical-industrial complex?

Tatiana Bandurina
Tatiana Bandurina
2 Feb 2026

They say ‘don’t worry’-but they never say what happens if you don’t follow the list. What if you forget one thing? What if you take something the day before your appointment and don’t remember? What if your OB thinks you’re lying because you didn’t write down your vitamin D from the dollar store?

And then there’s the guilt. The quiet shame when they say, ‘You shouldn’t have taken that.’ Like you didn’t already know. Like you didn’t cry in the shower because you thought you ruined everything.

I brought my list. I asked the questions. I did everything right. And still, my baby was born with a heart issue. Turns out, the ‘safe’ medication I took? The one they approved? It was the one that did it.

So now I don’t trust lists. I don’t trust doctors. I don’t trust anyone who says ‘it’s fine.’

Because nothing’s fine. Not really.

Akriti Jain
Akriti Jain
4 Feb 2026

OMG I just realized-what if the whole ‘medication list’ thing is just a way to get us to buy more prenatal vitamins? Like, what if they want us to take 12 supplements so they can upsell us on ‘premium’ ones with ‘bioavailable’ this and ‘chelated’ that? 🤔

My aunt took one folic acid and had three kids. All healthy. No spreadsheets. No OB visits until she went into labor. Meanwhile, my friend spent $800 on ‘organic’ pregnancy supplements and still had a preemie. Coincidence? Or is Big Prenatal just really good at marketing? 🤨

Also, why is CBD always the villain? I used it for morning sickness and I didn’t even feel the nausea. My baby is now 1 and loves bananas. 🍌

They’re scared of what they don’t understand. And they’re selling you fear.

Just sayin’.

Mike P
Mike P
6 Feb 2026

Let me tell you something-my wife took 17 different things during her pregnancy. Some were prescribed. Some were from her mom’s friend’s cousin’s herbalist. Some were just ‘for energy.’ We didn’t write a list. We didn’t overthink it. We trusted her body.

And guess what? She had a 9-pound baby who’s now a straight-A student. No autism. No allergies. No issues.

Meanwhile, my sister-in-law? She had a spreadsheet. Took every ‘safe’ vitamin. Followed every rule. Had a 5-pound baby with breathing problems.

So here’s the truth: You can do everything right and still get unlucky. Or you can do nothing and still get lucky.

Stop obsessing. Breathe. Eat real food. Sleep. Love your baby. That’s the real medicine.

And if your OB is more worried about your ginger tea than your mental health? Find a new one.

Philip House
Philip House
7 Feb 2026

Mike, your wife had a 9-pound baby? Congrats. But that doesn’t mean what she took was safe-it means her body was resilient. That doesn’t mean it’s a blueprint.

One in 33 babies has a birth defect. Most aren’t caused by meds. But many are preventable. You don’t get to play Russian roulette with a human life and call it ‘luck.’

And ‘find a new OB’? You think the next one won’t ask the same questions? You think they’re not trained to ask them? They’re not the enemy. The system is. But you don’t fix the system by ignoring it. You fix it by showing up prepared.

Resilience isn’t an excuse for ignorance. It’s a gift. Don’t waste it.

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